you are not alone in this

A safe space for women to feel less alone with OCD

Writing on intrusive thoughts, our cycles, triggers, and the slow work of learning to live beside OCD instead of at war with it. One woman's honest account, for the women who need to hear it.

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Latest writing

17 September 2026

OCD and overeating

one girl's honest take on OCD, food and self-forgiveness

When I'm spiralling and feel the need to do a compulsion, all of a sudden I get so hungry. It has never once worked in my favour.

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8 September 2026

OCD through a woman's lens

and my mission to help you navigate it

At 15 years old, I was hit with an especially severe subtype of OCD known as POCD.

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Notes

little thoughts, as they come

12 Sep 2026

I’ve heard so many people say “just sit with the urge and it’ll fade within minutes.” That’s not the case for everyone. Sometimes it lasts for days, and eventually it passes. There’s no rulebook.

10 Sep 2026

Drinking green and mint tea has helped so much with my mood, skin and headspace recently. I highly recommend them.

12 Sep 2026

I’ve heard so many people say “just sit with the urge and it’ll fade within minutes.” That’s not the case for everyone. Sometimes it lasts for days, and eventually it passes. There’s no rulebook.

10 Sep 2026

Drinking green and mint tea has helped so much with my mood, skin and headspace recently. I highly recommend them.

12 Sep 2026

I’ve heard so many people say “just sit with the urge and it’ll fade within minutes.” That’s not the case for everyone. Sometimes it lasts for days, and eventually it passes. There’s no rulebook.

10 Sep 2026

Drinking green and mint tea has helped so much with my mood, skin and headspace recently. I highly recommend them.

12 Sep 2026

I’ve heard so many people say “just sit with the urge and it’ll fade within minutes.” That’s not the case for everyone. Sometimes it lasts for days, and eventually it passes. There’s no rulebook.

10 Sep 2026

Drinking green and mint tea has helped so much with my mood, skin and headspace recently. I highly recommend them.

hellooo,

I'm Tyga

Originally from the UK, living in Mexico for over four years now. OCD took over a huge portion of my life at 15, and since then I've moved through several different subtypes, some far harder than others.

Recovery for me isn't about erasing OCD, it's about learning to live alongside it, and helping other women feel less alone while they do the same.

Why subscribe

What She Fears is a safe space for women navigating OCD to feel less alone, and to better understand how it affects us throughout our cycles. I've had my fair share of moments where I felt there was nowhere to turn, and I know a community of like-minded women, with similar struggles, would have helped me in so many ways. I created this space out of love, in hopes of giving other women a small light in their own tunnel to recovery. So whether you're struggling with OCD, or any mental health challenge for that matter, I absolutely welcome you to subscribe.

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